The 12 Days of Christmas: A Leader’s Version

By Lisa Petrilli

I happened upon Michael Lee Stallard and Howard Behar’s post entitled, “Overcoming Leadership Myopia” on Friday and it resonated with me in such a relevant, honest way that I pleaded with my #LeadershipChat co-host to make it the focus of our December 14th #LeadershipChat.  Fortunately, he loved the post too.

Thus, our topic tomorrow night will be the importance, as a true transformational leader, of engaging and genuinely connecting with employees and followers.

It’s my belief that the importance of these leadership qualities cannot be stated enough.  One of the lines in the Stallard/Behar post that had me nodding my head and voice fully agreeing, “Absolutely” was the following: “Individuals who don’t demonstrate that they care about people will never be true leaders and, frankly, have no place in a position of leadership.”

Thus, in the spirit of their post and its resonance with me, and with an aim toward transformational leadership for all in 2011, please allow me to offer a Leader’s Version of The 12 Days of Christmas (since that’s exactly how many we have left as of today!) minus the duplicative lines for brevity’s sake, but with the melody that you know so well, plus the 5th verse in typical style…

The 12 Days of Christmas: A Leader’s Version

On the 1st Day of Christmas My Leader Gave to Me, a clear, inspiring vision for the company…

On the 2nd Day of Christmas My Leader Gave to Me, a role that fits my strengths perfectly…

On the 3rd Day of Christmas My Leader Gave to Me, a real interest in me and my ideas for all to see…

On the 4th Day of Christmas My Leader Gave to Me, genuine respect expressed visibly…

On the 5th Day of Christmas My Leader Gave to Me, 5 CORE VALUES! (demonstrated by him/her daily…)

On the 6th Day of Christmas My Leader Gave to Me, proof they value and treat the opportunity to lead with great responsibility…

On the 7th Day of Christmas My Leader Gave to Me, engagement with my team demonstrated passionately

On the 8th Day of Christmas My Leader Gave to Me, credit and a spotlight when my team delivers successfully…

On the 9th Day of Christmas My Leader Gave to Me, recognition of the talents and experiences I bring so uniquely…

On the 10th Day of Christmas My Leader Gave to Me, commitment to work and life balance so I spend quality time with my family…

On the 11th Day of Christmas My Leader Gave to Me, honest support and feedback expressed eloquently…

On the 12th Day of Christmas My Leader Gave to Me, empowerment to succeed brilliantly…!

I strongly encourage you to read Michael and Howard’s brilliant post and invite all of you to join me, my smart and savvy co-host Steve Woodruff, and the #LeadershipChat community tomorrow evening, December 14th at 8:00 pm ET to talk about how we’ll apply those nuggets of wisdom to our leadership roles in 2011.

What would you add to The 12 Days of Christmas? Please share in the comments – I learn so much from all of you!

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The Man With the Greatest Leadership Challenge

I spent most of the Thanksgiving holiday in the woods - in the “boonies” to be more precise - and my extended family spent a lot of time sitting around a very large, rustic, dining room table just talking and enjoying our time together.  So, in anticipation of the #LeadershipChat topic for this week – the importance of passion in leadership – I asked those gathered at breakfast one morning who they thought of when I said, “Passionate leader.”

I was expecting to hear names like Lincoln and Jefferson coming from the adults at the table.  Instead, the first to respond was a wise 12 year-old, who said without much thought, “the Pope.”

“Wow, that’s interesting that you say that…” was my immediate response, followed by, “Why do you say the Pope?”  She responded, “Because he has so many followers and it’s such an old religion that it’s easy for people to stop believing.  He has to be a strong leader to keep the religion from falling.”

Now, regardless of your religion and how accurate you believe her statement might be, I thought she may have actually hit on something insightful that had never occurred to me before when thinking about the Pope: 

He may be the only leader on the planet charged with making more than one billion followers believe, with their hearts, in the mission and vision of the organization he leads.  For him as a leader, his greatest challenge is the responsibility to nurture his follower’s belief in, and commitment to, the organization.  Results aren’t nearly as important given that imperfection (sin) is not only expected, it’s the norm. 

It’s possible to work for organizations without believing in the mission and vision of the leader.  I’ll posit it’s very difficult to do so and to be effective in your role, but it is possible.  It’s also possible to live in a country and completely disagree with everything your leader espouses.  Again, difficult and surely frustrating but possible, and millions on the planet live like this.

On the contrary, following the Pope is voluntary; it’s not possible to follow the Pope as a Catholic and not believe in the church’s mission.  Given this, and given the difficulties faced by the Church in recent years, allow me to suggest that the Pope has the greatest leadership challenge of all.  So, how does he address it?

The only answer is passion.

The Pope, as we all know, devotes his life to the church – to her teachings and to her followers.  Passion, as defined by the dictionary to include powerful or compelling emotion, strong love and great enthusiasm, must be at the core of his commitment to his role and to his “company,” the Church.  Add to this that the central event of Christianity, Christ’s crucifixtion and the events leading up to it, are referred to as the Passion…  Passion is – very simply – at the center of the religion and of its leader.

Notwithstanding the religious and political aspects of his role, is this example of passionate leadership as set by the Pope the model that we should aspire to as leaders? And if we aspire to it, will it make us better, more effective, inspirational leaders?

Here’s what I think: I think we can be effective, and in many ways successful, leaders without bringing passion to our roles.  I think many leaders in business today are examples of this, and I work with a number of them.

Having said that, I don’t think we honor ourselves by being in leadership roles for which we have no passion. We don’t honor ourselves, the power we’re giving to create magnificent lives, and we don’t honor our followers.

I believe passion for your role, for your vision and for the organization you’re leading must be a central, defining attribute for a leader. 

What do you think? PLEASE JOIN Steve Woodruff and me on Tuesday night, November 30th at 8:00 pm Eastern Time on Twitter for #LeadershipChat where we’ll discuss the importance of passion in leadership.  Bring your insights and please don’t be afraid to share – we learn so much from each other every Tuesday evening!

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Leading Through Uncertainty; Do You Have What it Takes?

As I mentioned in my last post, The Absolute Best Reason to Bring Values to Leadership, I am very fortunate and honored to have CEO Connection as one of my clients, and to work closely with member CEOs as Co-Chair of the Membership Committee.

Last week we hosted one of our CEO Boot Camps here in Chicago, a chance for CEOs of very large companies to share experiences, stories and advice that can be uniquely applied to make them stronger leaders.

George Bradt, the Co-Founder of CEO Connection, wrote a blog post about the keynote speaker and the wisdom he shared, having been a long-term CEO, on the opening night of the event.  If you’re interested, you can read George’s summary of Howard’s presentation in CEO Success – Howard Fluhr.

You’ll note Howard saved the best – perhaps the most important – for last.  He told the group to embrace uncertainty.  He even went on to say that he has come to notice that the most common element he has identified in successful CEOs is their ability to lead through uncertainty.  According to Howard, that’s the differentiator in getting the CEO job in the first place.

So, during one of our breaks I asked Howard a bit more about this.  I wanted to know what he thought he had done over the years that led his company’s leaders to see that in him.  What does he look for now as he is considering his successor, and how does he advise his clients to evaluate this in rising stars.

I wasn’t taking notes so I’m in no way quoting him, but we talked about fear.  He talked about how the fear that comes from uncertainly is a paralyzer to some, and when this happens it’s very evident. You can simply see it in how some respond in a meeting and how some respond in the way they do their job.

For others, it’s an enabler, sometimes even exciting. Those are the people who’ll have a shot at the top spot.

Does that include you?  Think about how you handle uncertainty in your own life.  How did you naturally respond to…

  • the first day of school
  • your first day on the job
  • getting engaged
  • finding out you were pregnant

…or any number of days when you woke up with uncertainty looming large. 

Was there a part of you that was paralyzed with fear?  Did you let that fear affect your experience or did you funnel that fear into creative energy? Were you devoid of all fear and simply open to the wild excitement of the blank slate and your own, colorful set of crayons?

Understanding your own natural reaction to uncertainty is imperative in understanding what you’re conveying to your followers in this time of uncertainty – in any period of uncertainty. To be effective you must lead through it and help your team to be effective in the midst of it. 

For me, that has always translated into holding fast to the team’s vision and then envisioning different paths that will get us there in the event Plan A doesn’t work out as expected; making sure to maximize the “pro’s” of each path and calmly navigating – and being fully prepared for – the “con’s.” 

How do you lead through uncertainty, and what is your natural reaction to it?  What advice do you have for others?  

Please share your responses and advice this Tuesday evening, November 16th at 8:00 pm ET at our next edition of #LeadershipChatSteve Woodruff and I hope to see you there!  And don’t forget to head over to Steve’s blog tomorrow for his take on leading through uncertainty!

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